Wiring is verbal (verbal) and physical, which is more common, we will talk about it.
Observing the conversation of people, you can identify some feature in their gestures and positions: they gesture equally, or perform other inconspicuous actions, repeating the movements of the interlocutor.
All these actions take place at a subconscious level. Wagging is a way to build mutual understanding. If another person looks like you, then you feel comfortable with him, and this is used in a conversation with a girl, copying her gestures and adjusting to her pose.
Stages of mirroring:
The led in this form you, you repeat the movements of the girl.
You move synchronously with a girl. This is a kind of transition between the two stages, at first it was the leading, and you will now become the opposite.
You are now the presenter! You control her gestures.
Another not unimportant step, it is the mirroring of her breathing, increases the efficiency.
You can mirror with a normal conversation, or with visual contact in stores, audiences, cafes.
You can also increase the effect of your conversation, if during it a little bit to the side to one side, this is a sign of genuine interest in the interlocutor.