Do not engage in alterations. Women’s common mistake: they want to remake their husbands. It is useless! In this world, only one person can be removable – yourself. It is impossible to make the chosen one to others – until he himself wants it. Leaving the child of the father from the previous marriage is a child? The kid should know: he is not to blame for anything! Children are acutely worried about the breakdown of their parents – and often take the blame on themselves. The child needs to explain that he is good, that mom and dad love him – they just did not have a relationship with each other. And it is better not to interfere with the communication of a son or daughter with a father (unless he is an asocial personality!). It is difficult for a child to divide love between mom and dad. He needs both of them.
Expel jealousy. Both women and men are often jealous of their chosen ones to their former. Jealousy, like envy, you need to eradicate. An effective way is a frank conversation. If Othello, the husband needs to explain to him: you chose him and took on his obligations and the responsibility of being faithful to him. To the form, your spouse is not experienced. But there is a joint child with him or there are common affairs (the same business). If you are exhausted from jealousy yourself, also talk to the life partner. Ask a direct question: “Why do you meet her so often?»Most likely, he will answer that he just wanted to see his child – and kept anything bad in his thoughts.